When Do You Become an Artist?
This week I've been studying.
Preparing for a new chapter in my career has meant reading research, asking lots of questions, and filling notebooks with ideas. Every so often, I catch myself wondering...
Shouldn't I know this by now?
The more I studied, the more I realized that the educators I admire most aren't the ones who have all the answers.
They're the ones who never stop asking better questions. The ones who continue to learn, reflect, revise, and grow.
That isn't a lack of expertise. It's one of the things that makes them experts.
We know that curiosity—and the hesitation that often comes with it—isn't unique to teaching.
I see it in creative pursuits, around game tables, and in conversations with people who are excited, but then hesitate to try something new.
"I've never been artistic."
"I don't know the rules."
"I wouldn't know where to start."
"I'm probably not very good."
It made me wonder...
When does someone become an artist?
The first painting? The hundredth?
When do you get to call yourself a gamer?
Once you've memorized every rule?
In the classroom, a child who picks up a book is already a reader.
A child who fills a page with invented spelling—even scribbles—is already a writer.
We don't ask children to earn those identities.
We invite them to belong.
Somewhere along the way, many of us stop offering ourselves that same invitation.
We tell ourselves we'll begin once we're good enough. Once we've practiced enough. Once we've earned the title.
But what if belonging comes first?
What if belonging is what gives us the courage to practice, to revise, and to keep showing up? Perhaps that's true whether we're learning to teach, paint, write, or play.
So this week, instead of wondering whether you've earned the title...
Simply invite yourself to belong.